Starting this new year, I pledge to take a stand against the destructive, insidious problem of Comparison Culture* on social media by committing to participate in YourTango’s #KeepItReal movement.

From now until the end of 2024, I will make a genuine effort to be more honest and transparent with my social media posts so that others do not needlessly suffer and feel inadequate due to what I have shared. Before posting, I vow to pause and think twice about depicting my life as “perfect” and instead strive to do better in showing off the unfiltered version of my reality for the betterment of myself, my community, and the social platforms I use.

I will try not to hide the truth behind Photoshop, super-edited reels, or perfectly posed photos. I will find other ways to #KeepItReal. When I have a super cool picture I’m excited to share, I will be willing to say that this is the 12th shot or share one or two of the “outtakes.” I will also be willing to share what happened behind the scenes in the caption, even if it means saying “we got this perfect shot because for 15 minutes I shouted at my kids to line up and smile!” #KeepItReal. 

I will also continue to share my moments of love, beauty, fun, and wonder with the intention of sparking joy and forging positive connections on social media.

I know that having the strength and courage to be honest and real, and that sharing our authentic truths—in all our glory, messiness, and imperfections—will be healing, bring us closer together, and can make social platforms wonderful places for genuine connection.

I WILL commit to move from a culture of comparison and extremely curated perceptions to a culture of connection and authenticity. 

I pledge to #KeepItReal and will encourage others to have the courage to do the same.

*Click here to read YourTango's research on Comparison Culture and learn more about how it's inadvertently harming our lives.